The Queen's Funeral
Wednesday, September 21, 2022
Great Britain has demonstrated to the world in a royal manner the importance and power that ceremony and ritual provide to family and community when someone they love dies. Across time and cultures, humans have always looked to customs and practices as a means for coping with death. Let Britain’s response to the death of their beloved Queen Elizabeth II be a reminder that ceremony plays a vital role in saying “farewell” to those we love. Eternal rest grant to Her, O Lord.
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